Cooper is officially a toddler. He’s no longer the walking infant he was at 12 months. He’s a chattering, running, flirting,
tantruming little kid and we are enjoying every minute of him…remind me I said that when he’s screaming on the changing table, K?
He now says about ten words, the most used being: Ball, Mama, Baby, Toe, Dada, Baby and Girls. (He yells “GIRLS!” when he is looking for them the way I do when I am yelling at them) and he’s using baby sign language to tell me he wants “more” or to “eat,” and we are working on “drink.”
He’s also learning about his bodily functions. Thanks to the warm weather I’ve let him run around naked plenty and whenever I catch him peeing I make sure to say “You’re going pee-pee.” He can actually say “pee pee” as well but he isn’t telling me when he needs to go yet, rather just copying me like a baby parrot. But it’s a start. I even caught him peeing on the side of the tub before a bath and quickly put him on the potty…but alas, it was too late and not even a drop made it in the toilet. But he sat there anyway saying “Pee pee? Pee pee?”
In addition to the occasional puddles on the floor, I’ve found the occasional “log.” My sister said that when her sons would poop on the floor they would be a little freaked out… “That came out of me??” but Cooper’s reaction is much more mundane, in fact, he barely seems to notice. Cooper doesn’t seemed too phased by poop, whether it is inside his diaper or not. And to be honest, he doesn’t seem to mind when he is wet either.
He’s now totally cool with sitting on his little potty and he claps his hands like he’s proud of himself. But he doesn’t have the attention span to sit for long, so before you know it, he’s turning around and sitting backwards, standing on it and or taking the removable bowl out of the seat and putting it on his head.
Right now the I’m definitely not pushing the potty training. He’s clearly not ready in many ways, but I am doing my best to keep the conversation going. By this I mean, every time he poops and I change his diaper, I tell him we’re going to “put the poo poo in the potty” and when I catch him peeing, I tell him what he’s doing so he can start to make the connection. I’ve also considered giving him a sippy cup of water to drink while he sits on the potty in the hopes it might trigger a dribble or two. I don’t see him breaking any potty training records in the near future and I’m all the more amazed that my nephew Andrew was potty-trained by seventeen months. No pressure, Cooper!
Where are you in the potty training process?

We are giving up again after at least four attempts at potty training. My son will be three tomorrow and he just doesn’t have the presence of mind to recognize that he needs to go and then run and go–really frustrating since he can pick a lock with just about anything and take apart a crib by himself in five minutes, so he’s obviously a smart kid. The most difficult part about giving up this time was the first couple of weeks were going pretty well and then he started getting really resistant, until he was sobbing on the floor that he would rather go to bed, and no, he wouldn’t even try if I gave him a marshmallow or some stickers. I decided to back off again. It was kind of a relief, but after two days I was sitting at the toilet spraying a vile poopy diaper and felt like crying at the prospect of doing this for another year with his diapers. And I feel like I wasted a month of my life cleaning up after his accidents. At least the duo size twos still fit.
I’m at the EXACT same place with my 16 month old daughter. My husband and I were both early PTers so I had high hopes for my girl…don’t think it’s gonna happen though :-/
Once we sat on the potty for an HOUR (snacks, drinks, songs, books)… And nothing came out, even though she woke up dry. I’m pretty sure she was holding it. Ugh’
She knows pee pee goes in the potty & what the potty is, but I don’t think she realizes she can control it….
WHY is it ALWAYS the side of the tub?!
We got my kiddo a potty when she was only 13 months – largely because it was on sale! We made it a part of our routine and sat her on the potty every day before her bath… and much to our surprise she pooped on it on day 3. I thought it was a fluke, but sure enough she poops on it most nights now. She’s about a week shy of 18 months and I think we’re going to give training a real try when we have a family vacation at a cottage in a few weeks. Lots of naked time and we’ll see what happens!
Great tips! So ready for my little one to be out of diapers!
oh potty training sucks… no other way to describe it, I feel like that is all I do is tell my son go pee, did you poop on yourself, go potty again…. shew I’ll be glad when he quits having accidents.
Oh man, I am not looking forward to potty training
Good luck, at least he likes sitting on the potty!
Anticipating this transition… reading all I can in preparation!
Good luck to everyone! My little girl trained herself at 28 mo. I’m sure the boy won’t be so easy!
We dragged the potty chair out of the basement about 2 months ago (baby is about 5 months now) and we set her on it frequently. She makes it in there quite often if I’m paying attention to her signals (most poop ends up in it, but pee is harder to catch). I’m hoping that by establishing this routine now, it won’t be strange or scary when she’s old enough to have full control over herself and that it’ll help potty training go easier down the road.
So far so good with us. Our oldest was closer to 3 when we just let him be naked (he wasn’t ready and we stopped). 2 month later we just let him run around naked. He would go without me reminding or anything and only had a handful of accidents since he started almost a year ago. He was night potty trained 2 months after that. For us just waiting was better
I think sometimes in the cloth diapering community it’s hard to remember that there’s no shame in having a late potty trainer. Any mom who makes it alive through potty training has accomplished something big–as has the child.
I love that he yells “girls!” that is too cute. Potty training is so crazy to me because of how different it is with each kid. They all respond differently, they all take their own time to get it done! I am still being patient with my 3.5 year old as she is trying desperately to stop having accidents. We’re 88% there, just trying to get over this last hurdle! Good luck to us all!
with my nice stash that i have built finally, i don’t even want to start potty training. he’s 18 months now.
Both of mine (boy and girl) were potty trained by 2-2 1/2. Dd now at 4 still has accidents overnight. She’s also my one who would never go on a little potty! She has always gone on the big potty with one of those seats that fit on top of the big potty.
It’ll be a while before we’ll have this experience.
Hope everything goes well!
We found with our two potty trained boys (a 6 month old still to go) that they were not ready until age 3. It seems like the earlier you start, the longer it takes so I was happy with waiting until 3 and being done in a matter of a couple weeks!
My daughter is 23 months and has been cloth diapered since she was about two weeks old. We bought a potty seat (the kind that goes over the toilet) a while ago and have been putting her on it periodically (I’d even casually) since then. It’s been tough to teach her exactly what she should be doing on it. She likes to sit there, even likes to wipe with toilet paper, the whole nine–but she just won’t pee or poop! I don’t know if that’s a sign she’s not ready for potty training, or just a sign that we need to do more teaching. Anyway, I plan to do the “run around naked for days” thing over Labor Day weekend since I’ll have several days off of work. She’ll be just shy of two years old then and I figure that it will be a good test. If she makes improvements over the few days, great–we’re on our way. If she doesn’t, then clearly she’s not ready and we’ll wait a few more months. I think there is a level of “training” that can be done, but I also think that you have to follow their lead.
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