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The closer we get to baby #3 making his or her appearance the more transitions are needing to take place. Some of the transitions, like Kendall becoming an older sister and being dethroned as the baby, simply cannot happen before baby #3 arrives; there are a few transitions that we can have happen before the birth day.

One of those transitions is moving Kendall into the same room as her big brother, Brennan. Thankfully, our bedset for Brennan’s room was given to us from my cousins so we already had a bunk bed set up. Brennan’s been sleeping in the bottom bunk since Kendall took his room and crib so first we had to get Brennan sleeping consistently in the top bunk.

Moving into a shared bedroom on Thirsties

I’m always surprised when one of my children encounters a new experience and they find it challenging. It’s not that I expect them to never be challenged or scared but having problems sleeping in a top bunk was not something that I anticipated Brennan having difficulty with. I just assumed that his little five-and-a-half-year-old brain would process things the same way I do: there’s a safety bar to prevent him from rolling off and the ladder to get up into the bed is on the opposite end of the bed where he sleeps. We’ve been talking about this process with him since Christmas. He was all excited about it until the time came to actually move on up. Consumed by his fear of falling off, he just could not bring himself to spend a night up there.

We dropped the issue with him. There was no sense in forcing him to do something he was afraid and time was on our side. Now, however, I’m 30 weeks into this pregnancy and time is quickly escaping us. Since I’m pregnant and clumsy my husband took on the task of putting Brennan to bed that first night. He climbed up into bed with Brennan; they read their books, said his bedtime prayers, sang his three songs (Twinkle Little Star, Daddy/Mommy Loves You, and Jesus Loves Me) and cuddled. My husband usually falls asleep with Brennan during cuddle time and the same thing happened this first night in the top bunk.

Once my husband woke up we chatted about how he got Brennan to stay in bed. He said that they had a lengthy conversation about how difficult it would be for Brennan to slip through the bar of the top bunk. His head is too big! Then they talked about how hard it would be for him to roll to the end of his bed and fall down the ladder. Once Brennan saw how these scenarios were really unlikely he was fine sleeping up high.

It’s safe to say that step one of moving Kendall into Brennan’s room is finished. Next, we’ll have to transition Kendall out of her crib and into the bottom bunk. All the while sharing a room with her older brother, whom she adores. I’m anticipating quite a few late nights of giggling and much needed shushing from us parents. On top of that we’ll have to explain to Kendall the importance of staying in bed. I’m certain there will be more than one morning where I’ll find Kendall in the top bunk with her older brother. So yes, the process of teaching Kendall how to get down using the ladder has also begun.

Life as a parent is all about transitions, what transitions have you had to help your child through recently?

Move from 1 Child to 2 on Thirsties blog

When I was pregnant with my second child I was really concerned about how life would change for my first child. I did a lot of research and talked to quite a few friends that had more than one child about how they made the transition from one to two. At the time my son was two-and-a-half years old and because of this I had to try to explain things in a way that he would comprehend what was going to happen. Here’s what we did:

Waited until I was really showing to explain that I had a baby in my tummy. I didn’t want to cause undue worry or confusion for Brennan, my son, until it was very obvious that I was pregnant. I’ll be 29 weeks in the next day and my daughter who will be three in June is starting to understand that there’s really a baby in there.

We looked at books about having a new baby. My son has always related well to books when it comes to understanding things. I think it’s because we can read the same information over and over again; the words never change so it’s less confusing. We’ve done the same with our daughter and we’ve used the same author Joanna Cole with both kids. To help Kendall, my daughter, understand what was happening I tried making a personalized book from Twigtale and this has really helped her understand that she’s not the baby any more. Here are some of the books I’ve used with my kids:

I’m a Big Brother & I’m a Big Sister by Joanna Cole

The New Baby by Mercer Mayer

Twigtale personalized books, it’s like Shutterfly but with a pre-written story that you customize.

Big Brother Party | Bert Anderson for Thirsties

 Have a big brother/sister party once the baby is born! A friend of mine suggested this when I was pregnant with Kendall and I loved the idea. About a month before Kendall was born, we told my son about the party he would get to have to celebrate being a big brother. He was most excited about the cake and ice cream but this really helped him get into the excitement and anticipation of waiting for his sister’s arrival. Plus I like that it puts a positive spin on the oldest not being replaced rather becoming the big brother/sister to the new baby.

We started to accrue hand-me-downs from family friends so we saved those for his party and told him the gifts were from his sister. We invited our immediate family over for the party too.

Whatever you decide to do it’s important that you do actually prepare your child(ren) for any new babies that will be entering the family. It can be quite shocking for them to understand depending on their age but with a few age-appropriate tools you can make the transition as easy as can be.

 

 

St. Pattys Day Treat and Crafts | Thirsties Blog

St. Patrick’s Day…in two weeks everything Irish will be on the scene and celebrated. How do you incorporate the celebration so that your little ones learn to enjoy the holiday and its origins? Okay so the real St. Patrick wasn’t even Irish; he was from Great Britain. The reason why the holiday is known as an Irish one is because he ended up returning to Ireland after he escaped from slavery, converted to Christianity and then made it his life’s mission to convert the Irish to Christianity. Much of the stories we hear about St. Patrick can’t really be proven and some believe they were made up by well intentioned monks wanting to celebrate St. Patrick after his death. Still, the holiday is a great way to introduce your children to another culture, to help celebrate spring and have a little fun if your view outdoors is the same as mine: ground covered in snow, not a spot of green in sight!

 

St. Patty’s Day Crafts and Recipes for Kids!

Sassy Dealz Shamrock Paper Roll Craft | Thirsties Blog

Sassy Dealz’s Shamrock TP Roll Stamp

Do some upcycling and send these cute little shamrocks to Grandma and Grandpa!

Our Big Earth Rainbow Wreath | Thirsties Blog

Our Big Earth’s Rainbow Wreath

I have an obsession with holiday or seasonal wreaths. I love the way this one looks and it seems fairly easy to do with even your youngest lad or lass!

The Seasoned Mom melting-crayon-rainbow | Thirstiest Blog

Melting Crayon Rainbow from the Seasoned Mom

My eye was instantly drawn to this craft. Melting crayons is definitely a trend in crafting today and I love how this incorporates the St. Patty’s Day theme of rainbows and a pot of gold but it’s also something that I would display in my house.

catch-a-leprechaun-st-patricks-day-craft-photo Spoonful | Thirsties blog

Spoonful’s Leprechaun Trap

I like this craft for the older kiddos; I’m sure that I could attempt it with my 5 year old but I’m pretty certain I’d be the one doing the majority of the work. Why not get the bigger kids in on some family fun, right?

Lucky-Leprechaun-Green-Smoothie-Recipe-from-Creative-Green-Living-and-B-InspiredMama | Thirsties Blog

Lucky Leprechaun Green Smoothie by B-Inspired Mama

Sneak some green veggies into even the pickiest eater’s diet with this kale and banana featured smoothie.

St. Pattys Day Granola on Munchkin Munchies | Thirsties Blog

St. Patty’s Day Granola from Munchkin Munchies

Yummy granola, Lucky Charms’ marshmallows, M&M’s? You can beat that.

How to make the most out of your childs favorite tv show. Thirsties Blog

Have you ever thought about the life lessons your child learns from his favorite TV show? While not all TV shows are alike and some are proven to bring the IQ of a child down (ah hem SpongeBob…) there are a few gems out there on the boob tube. Why not make the most out of those shows and use them to your advantage? It’s worked for me!

Thomas the Tank Engine – There have been so many times I’ve used the major theme in any Thomas episode of being a “useful engine.” It was particularly helpful when my son (who, to this day, is still an avid Thomas fan) was under the age of three and hadn’t quite grasped the concept of helping out. If he wasn’t helping pick up his toys or if he was acting out in public, I simply told him that he was not being a useful engine. That did the trick! I even went as far as to have my brother-in-law pretend to be Sir Topham Hat (the railway conductor) because my son was really acting out and I just could not get him to listen to me. It definitely worked and I really only did it twice.

Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood - If I had a dollar every time a Daniel Tiger episode helped me explain a difficult concept to one of my kids I would be a millionaire! The reason why I love Daniel Tiger so much is the same reason my parents loved Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood when I was a child: He tackles difficult emotional situations such as being frustrated or feeling sad in a way that’s easy for children to comprehend. And on top of those lessons, songs are added into the episode that can be sung later! A few of my favorite episodes is the one where Daniel needs to learn how to dress appropriately for the weather outside and the episode where Daniel learns how to calm himself down. You will frequently hear us singing Daniel Tiger songs throughout the day.

Sesame Street – Aside from Sesame Street’s educational aspect Sesame Street tackles tough, real life situations in a way that toddlers can begin to process and understand. After 9/11, Sesame Street tackled the difficult to explain real life event in its season 33 premiere. The episode, however, never referenced the event; rather, it handed out situations that the characters needed to process such as Elmo coping with a fire that happened at Mr. Hooper’s store. What Sesame Street does brilliantly is look through real life adult situations as if they were a preschooler. Sesame Street has always done this and I don’t think it’s trait that’s ever going away. (Thank goodness!)

So sit down with your kiddo and see what they’re watching on TV. Then, see how you can reference the show to a difficult to explain situation. What are your kids’ favorite TV shows? Have you referenced them in real life?

Education choices for my children | Bert Anderson for Thirsties

Last Thursday my husband and I embarked on a new phase of parenting: Kindergarten orientation and registration. It’s been five years since my son has been born and this coming fall he’ll start educational phase of life. It should be simple, shouldn’t it? Sending a child to school seems like an easy decision to make, one that’s not filled with second guessing or too much anxiety. What I’m beginning to learn is that it can be an easy decision, and perhaps it really should be; but in a day and age where there are so many options and so many opinions it can drive a person insane.

My core group of friends have children who are either homeschooled or attend a local charter school. When my son was an infant and young toddler I was certain that we would homeschool him. I liked the ability to set our own schedule, to monitor what my child would be learning and to control the social settings he would experience. As my son aged, it soon became apparent that he and I are so much alike that homeschooling him could be disastrous for our relationship. I also began to realize that like me, he is incredibly social, thriving in a social setting where there are other children and adults he can interact with. Like me, he also is competitive; heck, it’s how I get him to clean up! We race each other to see who can clean up the fastest. Since he started attending preschool he has really blossomed into this mature little boy because he’s excelled by being in a classroom setting.

Then there’s the charter school option; initially I was set on sending my children to the same charter school that my friends send their children to. The school places a high emphasis on academic learning with its curriculum being set in “classical education.” These children are bright. They are learning how to learn in a very vigorous educational setting. While it works for my friends and their children, the more I learned about the school, the more turned off I became. I feel that kids should be allowed to be kids. I’m not saying that I’m dumbing down my children by wanting them to have a typical elementary education. What I’m saying is that I want for my children to experience the holiday parties, the arts, and the physical education that a public school has to offer. Plus, I really do believe that my children have the rest of their lives to be a grown up; it will definitely be a longer time than being a child. I want right now, for their most difficult decision to be whether they should play with Legos or wooden blocks.

Without second guessing my decision, and after discussing it with my husband, we are sending our children (starting with my son) to the public school in our town. Without comparing my child’s educational experience with another or worrying about whether or not he’ll learn enough to function successfully in life, I will “go with the flow” so to speak. I will be involved in his education; it starts at home with my husband and me. As a parent you must be involved in your child’s education. You cannot solely rely on your child’s teachers to do it all.

That’s what we’re doing: sending our son to public school next fall. If it completely fails, we can always go a different route. Nothing is set in stone.